ETIQUETTE:

A little common courtesy goes a long way.

People are interested in YOU, so relax and be yourself.
Please remember to always be polite.
Always try to be aware of other people’s comfort levels, especially your own partner.

In a group or party situation, a friendly “hello” can work wonders to ease someone’s discomfort, and if you find that your interests are in different directions, or any attractions are not mutual, remember to remain polite, as you would certainly wish to be treated.

When meeting a potential swing partner or partners be polite, even if you don’t think there’s any potential for intimacy, you could still have a great time anyway.

Please remember!! “No” means “No”. Anyone has the right to refuse your advances as you have the right to refuse theirs.
Don’t expect or ask for any explanation, an initial “No” will not change to “yes” no matter how much persuasion, please don't pester.

If there’s someone that you are attracted to, let them know in a friendly manner but please accept their response, what ever it may be. If they change their mind, they will let you know.

Practicing safe sex, is of course, a person’s choice. Anyone’s decision to use condoms should be accepted and you are far better off presuming that all
will practice safe sex. Anyone not willing to accept this decision is acting irresponsibly and disrespectfully. If someone’s willing to be intimate with
DO let others know what your likes and dislikes are in the beginning, so as to prevent any complications later and DO respect others limits and wishes, after all, we are, apparently, liberated adults, so DON’T be shy be OPEN.

NEVER!! Let anyone pressure you into situations you are not comfortable with, NEVER go along with something just for the sake of it, or for someone else’s benefit, not even your partners, if it is not for you, DON’T DO IT.

Honesty may hurt sometimes but in the long term it will always be the BEST OPTION.

Swinging is about having a good time. Live some fantasies explore your sexuality and enjoy!

On a more personal note if you really want to bring what could be an intimate evening to an abrupt halt, then!!
DON’T SHOWER or BRUSH YOUR TEETH!
Nothing is more of a turn-off than body odour and offensive breath.

Make yourself presentable, even more so if you know the evening will involve sexual intimacy.
 

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