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LIFE AND WORK of the Oxford Place Methodist Centre is published quarterly: Winter (January), Spring (April), Summer (July) and Autumn (October) by Leeds Methodist Mission
Correspondence and contributions should be addressed to:
The Editor, Life and Work, Oxford Place Methodist Centre, Oxford Place, Leeds LS1 3AX. Telephone: (0113) 245 3502 (office hours) or may be sent by e-mail to kenneth.tait@btinternet.com (Attachments are preferred in plain text, Microsoft Word, Microsoft Publisher, or RTF)
Please visit our web site at www.oxfordplace.org.uk

Local Preachers
1984 Mr R K Lolley
1986 Mrs P Goacher
1991 Mrs E Waller
1993 Miss J Oliver
1993 Ms E Day
1994 Ms J Aitchison

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Jim Butler

At the funeral of Jim Butler, Ken Wilson gave a moving eulogy helping us to give thanks for the life of a man, as Ken put it, 'worthy of commendation'. In his eulogy Ken set out before us of aspects of Jim's life that were unknown to some of us.
Jim was born in Southern Rhodesia (now Zimbabwe) into a missionary family where he lived until his early teenage years, working alongside his brother with Africans on the mission land and eventually attending school in Salisbury (now Harare).
When Jim was about 14 the family returned to England and although his father went back to the Mission in Rhodesia the family settled in Leeds near Hanover Square. After leaving school Jim worked for his uncle in the family joinery business until he was called up during the Second World War when he served in North Africa and Italy as a tank driver.
Before the war Jim had met Chrissie at Hanover Square Chapel where they were married in 1939. Jim and Chrissie had three children: Jill, Paul and Richard. Jill died as a young child.
Both Jim and Chrissie worked with young people, either at Sunday School (Jim being Superintendent for a period) or in the Youth Club. Both were active in the sports of badminton and cricket and Jim maintained a regime of physical exercise, particularly walking, throughout his life. In the 1950s Hanover Square Chapel closed. To ensure that the Sunday School pupils continued to attend, Jim , with others, would meet them in Hanover Square each week and walk with them to Oxford Place.
After the war Jim continued with joinery, working for the Yorkshire Electricity Board, serving on the Works Council where he persistently strove against unjust policies. Jim had strongly held views and beliefs that he expressed in meetings whenever he felt a decision would not accord with them. Later he worked in occupational therapy devising and making equipment to help those with impaired movement or who needed to exercise in particular ways.
Having always enjoyed the local countryside, in retirement he and Chrissie travelled further afield in Europe. Chrissie died in 1982. In those later years he remained active, taking a working holiday as a deckhand on a canal steamer in Scotland and reaching the top of Ben Nevis, but the time came to leave the house he had lived in for almost 40 years, but even at Berwick Grange he could not stop being active (jogging round the ground) and helping out.

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Ann Spencer nee Webber

As many of our older members will know, Ann who died so suddenly on 6 August, was a member of the Youth Club where she met Oliver. They kept in touch when Ann went away to college and eventually were married at Oxford Place. For a short time they lived at Swillington where their daughter Alison was born. Soon, however, they decided to move out to St. Kitts and sailed with their possessions from Southampton.
Life was hard in their early days for the young family as few
homes had water and electricity laid on. However they eventually bought a house and brought up four children. Two small West Indian boys were usually there as well and were virtually part of the family.
At the funeral, one of Ann's friends paying tribute to her included the following - As a light, Ann's life was a flame that burnt bright wherever she went. She actively participated in whatever group or organisation to which she was affiliated - her faithfulness, dedication and dependability were known and spoken about by all she served. Whatever health and strength Ann had, she used to serve others. She will be greatly missed. She was so many things to so many people - a homemaker, a gardener, a secretary, a manager, a wife, a mother and grandmother, a cook, an organiser, a coordinator, a writer and to all she was their friend.
For all these years, an angel has dwelt among us. We owe it to her to learn from her life and walk in her footsteps. May her journey continue and may she now receive a hundred fold the joy and love she brought to so many others.
From the number of people who came to pay their respects at the funeral - estimated at 400 - and the cards and flowers, which were received by the family, it was obvious that she was held in great esteem and this has given us great comfort.
Shortly before she died Ann wrote the following message to the women of St. Kitts -
Take time to be quiet

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TAKE TIME TO BE QUIET

Everywhere there is noise and clamour. The constant roar of traffic, the radio and television permanently on as background noise. Even in church it often seems that we believe God is deaf and we seem to believe that who can shout loudest will have His ear.
We suffer from headaches, heartaches and depression and sometimes seem to be at our wits end with constant cares and worries and we snap at our partner and children for no reason.
Let us take time to just be quiet, to reflect on the good things in our life and to have time just to do nothing. Make time every day for a personal quiet time even if it is only fifteen minutes to get our minds completely away
from daily chores and worries.
Sit in the garden under a tree, go into the bedroom and let all the family know that you are not to be disturbed. Take a shower and sit on the 'landing' in the breeze.
Relax and count your blessings. Times are hard and life seems a struggle but there are always so many things to be grateful for. The health of our families, the love shared within it, the laughter of children and tasks done together bonding mothers with daughters and sons.
Think of the little things we can do to make another's life a little better kind words of encouragement to children - our own and others - instead of criticism, a tender word to a partner or a neighbour or friend who is going through troubling times; errands and acts of kindness to others or a smile to a stranger.
Use the quiet time to rejuvenate the spirit, to relax and face problems with a clearer mind. Make it a habit to count your blessings great and small.
You owe it to yourself to have time away from the family. They will appreciate a less stressed mother, wife or grandmother. Your friends will appreciate the calm you bring into their lives. You will be forming a habit that will have a lasting effect on all those with whom you come in contact and life will be better for all.

Ann Spencer

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Michael our Chairman writes...

A few months ago a woman whose minister I used to be, died at the age of 90. She was a deeply devout Christian and a loyal and committed Methodist. She had no relatives apart from a cousin, and she had always made it plain that she did not want either a funeral or a thanksgiving service. Instead, she said, her body would be offered to medical science. So that was what happened, and the offer was accepted.
I had, of course, heard about people choosing to do this, but she was the first person I had know to actually do so. In the weeks following her death it seemed strange to those of us who knew her that we had no collective opportunity to remember her, to give thanks for her life, or to mourn her passing. We had to content ourselves with talking to each other on the telephone about both her kindnesses and her funny little ways!
As I reflected further on this experience, I have come to realise that her decision says something quite important to the rest of us. She has no doubt that her destiny was to share in the life of heaven through the mercy of Christ. For that purpose her body was simply an irrelevance. All her life she wanted to be useful to other people, and I think she wanted to be useful in death as well. Why should her body be consumed by fire or moulder in the ground when it might be useful in helping someone be a better doctor?
So Lena, rest in peace, and go on being of use to others as you always thought Christians should be.
 
I am writing this two days after the appalling massacre in Beslan. Even in a world where horrors are commonplace, I suspect that these appalling murders will still be in all our minds when people come to read it. 
We can scarcely begin to imagine the grief of the families involved and we know that many will be scarred by this event for a generation or more to come. All we can do is to pray for them, and that we must do. And our imagination fails completely when we try to understand how people could commit such a vile deed. That
children should be the target beggars belief. No cause, however passionately it is believed in, could possibly justify such an action. Indeed, the perpetrators have soiled and besmirched their cause. 
When the Archbishop of Canterbury was asked in a radio interview where God was in these events, his reply was preceded by a silence, and rightly. There can

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